It can be akin to deciding to be really good at a certain sport, activity or language; the more you practice the more proficient you become, this goes for making love....it becomes natural and knowing.
Just like we have the capacity to learn so do we have the capacity to unlearn or replace a bad habit with a good or beneficial habit.
Much of our learning happens up to the age of 7 but we are learning by example and perception rather than consciously and we haven't always grasped the wisdom that comes from experience except when it comes to the practical; don't touch the iron because it's hot that's very different. If we feel that we weren't loved because we weren't shown how to love, hugs, kisses, cuddles or we were told we had to do better, we didn't do it well enough, or we were stupid, thick.
Those negative experiences stay with us and become ingrained in our subconscious and unfortunately some people believe those voices from the past, the judgments of others. That is not YOU, it's not the core of the person you are now, the grown up who isn't a child.
Negative experiences of sex also stay with us and pop up at the worst possible times. We have the capacity to let that experience go, to let that time go, to unlearn the practices that became habits, masturbating quickly, guiltily, that it was dirty,.....why do we believe other people's negative sexual viewpoints? When making love and finding pleasure from our bodies is the most amazing sensation we can enjoy.
If we formed the habit of making love quickly for what ever reason or that stress the common belief that everyone is stressed and anxious and that is a normal state- it's not - or to believe the doctors when they say PE can only be relieved by anti depressants or numbing sprays.
There is always another way. During one to one session you can experience the power our body holds. If you want to learn how to last as long as you want with your partner. If you want enable yourself to regain the power of your penis and enjoy naturally hard erections even if this has been happening for years and is been caused by illness or medication or just the stress of work and relationships.
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Wishing you unlimited bliss.